Attachment and connection are two totally different things. But if you're unaware of the differences, it's easy to confuse one for the other. So how do you know if you're actually connected to your partner or just attached. An emotional connection is a bond between two people that's deeply rooted, It's a mutual understanding and empathy of one another’s feelings, that allow each individual to create a deep appreciation, affection, and intimacy with one another. Attachment, on the other hand, feels a little more like infatuation. For instance, one person may feel an "intense longing" for the other in a physical or intellectual sense, but the relationship stays more on the surface-level. Someone who is attached may even be in a relationship to fill a need or a void. Emotional connection and attachment can be easily confused because they can sometimes be seen as mutually exclusive. Partners with an emotional connection can then experience attachment to one another, but someone that develops an attachment first will struggle to find an emotional connection if at all. Basically, if you're attached to a relationship because it fulfills a need (i.e. a need to get married), you'll be more focused on reaching an end goal rather than building a deep and meaningful connection with your chosen partner. But if you want a fulfilling relationship that goes the distance, you need connection, not just attachment.
One area you shouldn't be neglecting during sex? The stomach — it's actually an extremely sensitive erogenous zone. The belly is loaded with nerve endings, the abdominal muscles and pelvic floor muscles are connected, which can lead to high levels of pleasure. This means that stimulating the stomach can increase arousal and ultimately produce a strong climax. The belly button is a nice pit stop between the breasts and genitals. One of the best ways to approach belly button play is by circling the area: Use large circles that converge slowly, using the belly button as your bullseye. You can perform these movements with a light touch, your tongue, or a sex toy.