So, I am trying to understand men. When I talk to heterosexual men about all of the wonderful masturbation tools I offer, their typical response is "I don't need that, I have my hand". I am always amazed at their un-openness and unwillingness to make their sex lives better! It's interesting however that gay men are much more open and willing to expand their sex lives. In my experience, gay men are so in tune and confident in their sexuality this must be because they have had to endure the criticism of society and have had to honor who they are, this has liberated their souls.
I asked a sexy, beautiful, heterosexual man who is very grounded in his sexuality and uses the sex tools himself the question "why are heterosexual men closed to masturbation tools?". His response made so much sense!
He said "It's not the norm, masturbation is still a taboo, so men hide and jack off with their hand, if they had a toy it would be known they were masturbating. Heterosexual men think vibrators are associated with women, by having a guybrator it indicates you're either gay, bisexual or incapable of getting laid or having a female partner. It really fucks with their ego. Most guys don't talk about masturbation with their friends like women do. We need to make it a norm for men to have guybrators, right now it's not the norm, it's not a universal hip heterosexual guy thing to do. It has to become an accepted thing amongst heterosexual men. In most men's lives there are two factors that dictate what they do, peer pressure or a problem. Peer pressure or a problem dictate them trying new things, peer pressure and problems also prevent them from being who they are. Once heterosexual men discover guybrators are a self pleasure tool and it's the norm they will use them. Most men watch porn to please themselves, why not have a personal tool to help enhance your self pleasure. Men are taking pills to help them be harder and last longer in bed and that's only because it became acceptable and the cool thing to do, it was through peer pressure that this happened because it enhanced their male ego, it made them better. At one point having a beard was not the cool thing to wear, until men started to see athletes like LeBron James and James Harden wearing full beards. Men realized women found full beards attractive and so, it became the norm. Most men know their woman has a vibrator, or several and that's the norm for women, men need toys to be their norm as well. Men need to put their egos aside and get in touch with their sexuality, this in turn will make them better lovers and being good in bed is a huge ego stroke for men."
Like I said, his response makes so much sense! Let's make self pleasure tools as normal as the beard!